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How Stoicism Eased my Severe Depression
Derren Brown, Happy (2016). A Review.
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On Sleeping with Younger Men
I often hear that, in a relationship across an age gap, the older partner is the more powerful.
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The Women of 7 October
I can’t stop thinking about them: the women and girls of the Israeli kibbutzim, who were raped on 7 October, less than 8 weeks ago.
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Falling Out of Love
After ten weeks of persistent daydreams, painful memories and unrequited longings, I am finally, slowly, beginning to fall out of love.
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Knots Gather at the Comb
In defence of snags, barbs and tangles
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4
The Skin I'm In
(You can find the audio version of this article here.)
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On Casual Anti-White Racism
Let's not do this.
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Why I Suspect Gender Is Real
And Not Just Socially Constructed
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The Eye of the Beholder
Beauty in Brisbane
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19
Tinder and the Illusion of Control
As some of you might know, I recently ended a two-year relationship (which actually began through Twitter—I write about this here) and returned to the…
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20
Mistress of Bricks
Counterintuitively, my surname, Italia, has nothing to do with the country of Italy.
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5
Thoughts on a Friend's Suicide
In Memory of Bruce Chadwick, who left too soon
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